The Machine That Agrees With You
If emotional intelligence helps us use AI well, it also has to protect us from being seduced by it.
I'm Paul Gradie - a scientist-trained staff software engineer, platform leader, founder, and AI-fluent product builder. I help teams move from ambiguity to production systems that are testable, observable, maintainable, and useful.
Designing resilient platform systems, migration discipline, and delivery-ready engineering for complex teams.
Turning ambiguity into useful software through clear plans, incremental delivery, and operational realism.
Using AI fluency as a capability layer to make engineering, review, and product work more productive.
Building practical products and productized experiments that sharpen my judgment and engineering craft.
If emotional intelligence helps us use AI well, it also has to protect us from being seduced by it.
A good prompt does not trick an AI model into being smart. It builds the temporary world the model has to reason inside.
Emotional intelligence may become one of the most important ways humans learn to work with machines.
We now have machines that do not merely execute instructions. They participate in reasoning. Not perfectly, not independently, not in some mystical human-equivalent sense - but enough that the mode of interaction has fundamentally changed.
2024 - Present
Tilt Finance
2020 - 2024
Octopus Deploy
2017 - 2020
Zendesk
2014 - 2017
University of Melbourne
2010 - 2013
University of Connecticut
2007 - 2010
University of Connecticut